Real Stories of toxic leadership

At VENT, we use storytelling to illuminate the profound impact of toxic leadership. Read personal accounts or watch animated adaptations of these experiences. Our stories are drawn from diverse individuals worldwide, ensuring anonymity while highlighting common patterns of abuse across various industries. Trigger Warning: This content may be triggering as it addresses themes of violence and harassment in the workplace.

In large (trans)national prestigious organizations

Big organizations carry a lot of prestige. Most are hierarchical, slow in adapting to change and have a reputation for tolerating a lot of abuse. The larger and more prestigious, the less accountability for the people at the top. This combination of prestige, legacy, hierarchy and no accountability is the perfect environment for toxic leaders to prevail. Whether it’s the UN, EU, or government - once you’re in and things turn toxic, anonymously shared stories suggest that in these types of work environments very little is done to support targets of psychological violence and harassment.

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Speak up - become the next target

Toxic pattern
lack of accountability
ignoring grievances
retaliation
gossip

You have been working for this company for years, and grew tired of the unhealthy culture normalizing gossip and bullying. As you witness multiple people get hurt, you decide to speak up in hope of making a difference. The only difference is how you are treated now. You become the new target. Next in line to have their reputation and future at the company destroyed.

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Just move him to another department

Toxic pattern
lack of accountability
ignoring grievances
favoritism

You and your colleagues are bullied. You follow the process of filing a complaint but no action is taken until things escalate. What action is taken? The bully gets extra time off to “decompress” and then is moved to another department.

In medium to large corporations

Medium to large corporations breed toxic leadership due to hierarchical structures fostering unchecked authority, disconnecting leaders from employees. Emphasis on profits often prioritizes results over ethics and well-being, incentivizing ruthless tactics for success. Bureaucracy and opaque management layers obscure transparency and accountability, enabling manipulation and blame-shifting.

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Squeezed to the last drop

Toxic pattern
exploitation
overworking
lack of support

A foreign worker you work for a medium sized company, which does all it can to cut costs. You give them all you have out of fear of not having a job at all. You are overworked, exhausted and completely undervalued.

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Forced to run a fake investigation

Toxic pattern
gossip
supporting bullying
dishonesty

You are a respected professional with over 20 years experience. You’ve been a loyal and recognized employee for a decade. New leadership comes on board and suddenly the bullies run loose. You are sucked into an investigation designed to devalue, discard and humiliate you. All shortly before you can legally retire.

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In small to medium companies and NGOs

Small companies, medium companies and NGOs, often struggle for resources. This means that short term gains sometimes take precedence over long-term sustainability. One of the most crucial aspects of a healthy, sustainable company are satisfied and fulfilled employees. Other times, a small company is doing very well until it starts growing. Suddenly, the wellbeing of employees takes the back seat as the chase after profitability clouds better judgment.

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Growth over culture

Toxic pattern
discrimination
removing processes designed to support justice and diversity
lack of accountability

You work at a promising startup with a vibrant culture. A shift in leadership priorities following rapid growth leads to new HR policies dismantling the inclusive environment, fostering racism and toxicity. Attempts to address the issues resulted in unfair treatment and ultimately, termination.

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Friends to foes

Toxic pattern
sabotage
threats
harassment

You join a new team, start a new life. You make a work friend who becomes a mentor and a friend only to one day turn on you and try to get you in big trouble. You become a target of threats, a topic of gossip. The leadership knows but doesn’t stop the bully. The HR tells you to “deal with it”.

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